From: Medico-legal history taking from the victims of sexual assaults: the role of nurse examiners
Safety | • Knock on the door and ask permission to enter the patient’s room • Meet with the person before they disrobe • Ask the person to disrobe only when necessary or only partially disrobe • Clearly identify and provide washrooms • Take time to familiarize the person with the physical environment • Ask about comfort level with lighting • Share control • Show respect • Use a warm and compassionate manner to build rapport |
Trustworthiness | • Explain all procedures in terms the person can understand • Tell the person what to expect and how long it will take • Ask the person what he or she wants |
Choice | • Ask if you can touch them each time • Ask before you invite in additional staff • Ask if you can close the door • Allow the person to decide where to sit in the room • Explain the rationale for each procedure. What the procedure will feel like and make appropriate modifications to reduce re-traumatization • Obtain consent for each part of the exam performed |
Collaboration | • Ask “what are your top worries or concerns” and address these first if possible • Share information • Encourage the person to make decisions about treatment |
Empowerment | • Ask “what happened to you,” not “what is wrong with you?” • Never ask “why” questions as they imply fault • Take time with the person, so he or she feels genuinely heard • Ask if the person has preferences related to or has had difficulty with a particular procedure • Ask the person what you should know before you begin the procedure • Ask if there is a way you can make the procedure easier for him or her • Ask if there is a way you can make the person relax: like a different position • Pay attention to body cues; many survivors have been conditioned to be passive and defer to authority and so may not disclose distress during a procedure |